I used to go to a place, touch people, and help them move around…but now those things are mostly crimes. I am a personal trainer in impersonal times. Or I was. I am out of a job, but it is more than that. I have a refined a skill set for a profession that will either move online, or be performed from social distance with due precaution. The idea of poking at my clients with a stick, while mouthing encouragement through the foggy window of a hazmat suit, is deeply unappealing. I may need to recalibrate.
I have time on my hands and a limited social calendar. I spend my days doing prison workouts with rusty weights. I sit on the floor and play x-box until the screen blurs and my hips cramp. Sometimes I write. A little. I have time but no attention. Every day is the same and the weeks are indistinct. The weather won’t change, but my hair keeps expanding so it must be spring. I am productive, sometimes, but it feels like nothing counts. Like this is a practice run, but I know I won’t get a real turn later.
Things are serious and people are dying. Not here, but somewhere. A lot of places. All I can feel is the strangeness. The antisocial geometry of walking down the street, like we are all playing tag but can’t tell who is IT. When I walk I find myself staring into people’s houses and hoping they look back. I haven’t pet a dog in weeks and I can’t see the end of it. We need to figure something out.
I don’t think that you could have expressed the feelings that most people are experiencing now any better!
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The one real benefit of this situation the connection of the globally shared expirence.
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The comparison to a game of tag without knowing who is It hit me right in the frontal lobe. Yesterday I went grocery shopping, and putting on my balaclava made me feel like I was getting ready to rob a bank or kidnap someone; I bought a couple of things I didn’t even want because I picked up the wrong box and then thought about how people might judge if I put it back on the shelf with my germs on it (I’m perfectly healthy as far as I can tell, but the news about asymptomatic carriers has me feeling guilty anyway). This situation is weird and sad. Thank you for writing this and helping me feel less like a privileged winner for hating how things have changed.
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*whiner, not winner 🙄
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It’s hard not feel entitled for mourning what initially felt like an extended sick day off school. But we are not designed to isolate and brood over an existential and threat that has no defined limit and no clear resolution. Shit takes a toll on the psyche.
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A lovely meditation on the weirdness… Not long before things really hit a breakneck pace of loony (which is paradoxically slow, as you point out), I was walking a doggy client of mine and we passed a house where one of the neighbourhood huskies was standing on a piece of furniture in a window, torso and neck angled up, and howling her husky howl… Something in the spirit of this post, if not its tempo and energy, ade me think about that howl, that angle of white and grey fur and pointed muzzled… A little bit plaintive and a whole lotta honest, bared to the trees and sky.
Please keep writing.
If there is any good in the whackadoo, it is in the spaces for contemplation and certain kinds of creativity often marginalized by more conventional pacing.
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I do think that this communal isolation,odd term, will produce a wave orfmusic and literature the way post war periods did. Our Vietnam is house arrest and slow stir crazy madness…I hope we get a sick soundtrack out of it.
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